We all know the feeling of missing someone close to us, whether that’s a partner, friend, or family member.
Horrible feeling, isn’t it.
So what are the best songs to listen to when you miss someone you love?
That’s what this article is all about.
If your loved one is no longer with you, gone away temporarily (or worse, for good) but you still miss them like crazy, check out some of these best songs about missing someone.
Table of Contents
- Our Favorite Songs About Missing Someone
- “Wish You Were Here” by Pink Floyd
- “Miss You” by The Rolling Stones
- “So Far Away” by Dire Straits
- “Missing You” by Steve Perry
- “I Just Don’t Know What To Do With Myself” by The White Stripes
- “Far Away” by Nickelback
- “I’ll Be Missing You” by Puff Daddy featuring Faith Evans
- “Thinkin’ Bout You” by Ariana Grande
- “Miss You Like Crazy” by Natalie Cole
- “The Bed’s Too Big Without You” by The Police
- “I Need My Girl” by The National
- “Reminds Me of You” by Van Morrison
- “Lay Me Down” by Sam Smith
- “Always” by Bon Jovi
- “Thinkin’ Bout You” by Frank Ocean
- “Tears in Heaven” by Eric Clapton
- “Missing You” by Diana Ross
- “I Will Always Love You” by Whitney Houston
- “So Far Away” by Carole King
- “Ain’t No Sunshine” by Bill Withers
- “Come Back, Be Here” by Taylor Swift
- Songs About Missing Someone – Final Thoughts
Our Favorite Songs About Missing Someone
“Wish You Were Here” by Pink Floyd
We have to start with this classic number from prog-rock maestros Pink Floyd.
This song is about detachment, and how some of us deal with the world by withdrawing physically, mentally, or emotionally.
The inspiration, like much of the album ‘Wish You Were Here’ (especially ‘Shine on You Crazy Diamond’) was Pink Floyd’s founding member Syd Barrett and his issues with mental health.
“we’re just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year”
It’s easily one of the more popular acoustic guitar songs, loved and played by legions of beginners. Especially, as it’s relatively to play (the signature riff is super simple).
“Miss You” by The Rolling Stones
One of their first (and only, thank goodness) forays into disco – or R&B, as they preferred to think of it – ‘Miss You’ brings together a funky bass line, horns, and drums for a nice danceable groove, giving Jagger something to wiggle his hips to on stage.
Jagger said of the song “‘Miss You’ is an emotion, it’s not really about a girl. To me, the feeling of longing is what the song is.” However, the song is widely considered to be about his failing relationship with his then-wife, Bianca.
On harmonica duties is Sugar Blue (James Whiting), a busker who was playing his harmonica in the Paris metro when someone from the Stones label heard him and brought him to the sessions.
I hope they tipped him well.
“So Far Away” by Dire Straits
A very common situation when you’re on tour.
Knopfler said about the topic of the song “quite apart from anything else, we are now a world of travelers and air travelers. Families are split up in different parts, all over the place,” which he said “is a joke”.
Fast forward to current times, and we have numerous video conferencing tools.
Are we any closer? I’ll let you decide.
“Missing You” by Steve Perry
A common thought if you’ve ever broken up with someone is “could you have done something different? Could you have given more?”
In fact, the guilt can haunt you for a long time, even if you’ve moved on. You lost the plot, and things went south. But now it torments you, and the funniest thing: you miss that person now! You still want them.
“Memories surround me, won’t let me forget, I was so wrong”
“I Just Don’t Know What To Do With Myself” by The White Stripes
Relationships leave a lasting impression on you, you can’t dust people off and just carry on regardless.
When you lose a significant other, you lose a little piece of yourself. You sometimes stop enjoying the stuff you did before, and you don’t know what to do.
That’s the premise of this song.
The singer was “planning everything for two, doing everything with you” but “now that we’re through, I just don’t know what to do”.
“Far Away” by Nickelback
This song is about realising how much you truly love someone, despite all the time you’ve kept them waiting.
“Too long, too late, who was I to make you wait”.
But now the protagonist realizes “That I love you, I’ve loved you all along, and I miss you, been far away for far too long”.
“I’ll Be Missing You” by Puff Daddy featuring Faith Evans
I’ll Be Missing You is a tribute to rapper Notorious B.I.G. (who was shot to death in 1997).
Big Poppa was a good friend of Puff Daddy (known as P. Diddy now) and they appeared together on the track ‘Mo Money, Mo Problems’, a superb song about money.
The track samples The Police’s “Every Breath You Take”, despite not having permission to sample it initially. However, Sting appreciated the sentiment for P.Diddy’s fallen friend and was ok about them using it (he was in fact granted a writer’s credit, so did very well out of it as the song was a massive hit).
We also feature this track on our songs about losing someone playlist.
“Thinkin’ Bout You” by Ariana Grande
‘Thinkin’ Bout You’ is a sweet song about missing that special someone.
Speculation is rife about who the other person is. Was it her boyfriend at the time (Alvarez), or was it even the late, great Mac Miller? I hope so, that guy needs to be remembered more.
“I tried to make it through the night, but I can’t control my mind”
“Miss You Like Crazy” by Natalie Cole
Another classic song about missing someone after a breakup, and wanting to rekindle an old love.
“Ever since you went away, every hour of every day, I miss you like crazy, I miss you like crazy”
It turns out she’s still in love with her ex.
She convinces herself all she needs is “just one night, and we’ll have that magic feeling like we used to do”.
How likely is this to happen, really? Maybe someone needs to tell her ‘move on girl’!
“The Bed’s Too Big Without You” by The Police
This song could simply be about an overly big bed, but I think that might be taking too literally!
From their popular ‘reggatta de blanc’ reggae-infused album (‘reggatta de blanc’ means ‘white reggae’), it’s an interesting take on a breakup song (one of the most immediate things after a break up is an oversized bed).
The track includes the hilarious line “made love to my pillow but it didn’t feel right”.
It’s a great bouncy track, if you pardon the pun.
“I Need My Girl” by The National
Despite all the glitz and glamour, the constant touring of a professional musician can be really tough and make them miss home (check out Pink Floyd’s track Nobody Home for evidence of this, a great song about being homesick).
Musicians also sometimes feel absent from family stuff, as they’re away so much of the time, hence the line ‘I know I was the 45% of then’ (a comment about not being totally there for his wife and kids).
Singer Matt Berninger said of the song “It’s just a song about missing your wife, girlfriend, whoever.”
“Reminds Me of You” by Van Morrison
A heartfelt song by Van the Man here, in a predicament many of us can relate to.
It’s about when someone breaks up with you and but you’re still in love. You’re in a state of despair and you can’t find anything to do that doesn’t remind you of them.
“Everything I do reminds me of you”
He knows the love is over, but his heart won’t let go “my head says no but my soul demands it”. He’s tormented by what went wrong, he really can’t see where it all went wrong “where I tripped and went wrong, I’ll just have to guess”.
Sometimes you have to accept you’ll never know what went wrong. Time to move on.
“Lay Me Down” by Sam Smith
The lead single from his bestselling album ‘In the Lonely Hour’ and the song that kick-started his career.
At a gig at the O2 Academy in Brixton, he explained the inspiration behind the song (the unrequited love he suffered when he fell for a guy who turned out to be straight).
“Always” by Bon Jovi
Written for the movie Romeo Is Bleeding (taken from the Tom Waits song), this was Bon Jovi’s best-selling single in the UK, selling over half a million copies.
“I’ll be there, till the stars don’t shine, till the heavens burst, and the words don’t rhyme”
A typical love song? Not really. The girl in question has moved on, and he misses her like crazy.
In the words of Jon Bon Jovi, “this guy is practically a stalker. He’s a sick human being.”
Let’s move on shall we!
“Thinkin’ Bout You” by Frank Ocean
Released as the lead single from Frank Ocean’s debut studio album Channel Orange, “Thinkin Bout You” is a vulnerable song about a relationship just out of his reach.
With Ocean’s trademark falsetto, atmospheric production, and mellow, minimalist vibe, it’s a really good song.
“I’ve been thinkin’ ’bout you, you know, know, know, I’ve been thinkin’ ’bout you, do you think about me still?”
“Tears in Heaven” by Eric Clapton
This sad song needs no introduction. The legend that is Eric Clapton has suffered the one thing any parent dreads with all their heart, the passing of a child.
His four-year-old son Conor fell out of a 53rd floor window in New York City.
A hugely tragic event, it’s a testament to the great songwriter that he was able to move on, and write this incredible song.
“Would you know my name, if I saw you in heaven?”
“Missing You” by Diana Ross
Written with Lionel Richie, the song is about losing her former Motown colleague and friend Marvin Gaye (who was tragically shot and killed by his own father in 1984).
It was later covered by Whitney Houston, and sampled on Master P’s ‘Gangstas Need Love’.
“I Will Always Love You” by Whitney Houston
Featured in the movie The Bodyguard, this song was made famous by Houston, but was actually written by Dolly Parton in 1974 (Parton did well from the success of the Houston version, banking $6 million. She was reported as being “blown away” by Whitney’s version. I bet!).
As for the lyrics, it’s a song about letting go of someone you love, and an acceptance that – despite things being over – she’ll always love him.
“Bittersweet memories, that is all I’m taking with me, so, goodbye”.
Related: see our playlist of songs with love in the title.
“So Far Away” by Carole King
Famous for songs such as ‘You’ve Got a Friend’ (one of the best songs about friendship), Carole King took her pen to writing a song about missing someone here.
So Far Away is about missing someone special, but also a commentary about the frantic pace of things “doesn’t anybody stay in one place any more?”.
She needs a hug, but time separates them “holding you again could only do me good, oh how I wish I could but you’re so far away”
It was a favorite of Amy Winehouse and was played at her funeral in 2011.
“Ain’t No Sunshine” by Bill Withers
From Wither’s 1971 album ‘Just As I Am’, ‘Ain’t No Sunshine’ winning the Grammy for best R&B Song in 1972.
With a stellar line up of session musicians on the track (including Stephen Stills on guitar), it’s been covered by everyone including Michael Jackson and Paul McCartney.
It’s a great song about missing someone “ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone” and loneliness he feels “and this house just ain’t no home”.
It also includes the classic line “I know, I know, I know, I know, I know” which he nearly edited out, before he was advised against.
“Come Back, Be Here” by Taylor Swift
Another of those sad songs, but this time it’s about not wanting to miss someone (because you know you’re in too deep).
“I told myself, don’t get attached” she says.
But “when the feeling sinks in, I don’t wanna miss you like this.”
Songs About Missing Someone – Final Thoughts
We’ve covered a lot, from Pink Floyd to Taylor Swift!
What unites all these songs about missing someone is that longing for someone – whether that’s a romantic relationship, a lost love, former lover, or a friend or relative who recently passed away – is all part of the human condition.
It’s perfectly natural, it’s perfectly human. So learn to embrace the aching heart,
It’s the emotion that keeps us coming back for more love.
- “Wish You Were Here” by Pink Floyd.
- “Miss You” by The Rolling Stones.
- “So Far Away” by Dire Straits.
- “Missing You” by Steve Perry.
- “I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself” by The White Stripes.
- “Far Away” by Nickelback.
|1. "Don't Forget About Us" Mariah Carey||16. "I Fall to Pieces" Patsy Cline|
|2. "Back to December" Taylor Swift||17. "Young in Love" Thelma Plum|
|3. "We Belong Together" Mariah Carey||18. "Un-break My Heart" Toni Braxton|
- Let Somebody Go – Coldplay Feat. ...
- 'If You Love Somebody Set Them Free' – Sting.
- 'Goodbye My Lover' – James Blunt.
- 'Let Her Go' – Passenger.
- 'Tattoo' – Jordin Sparks.
- 'The Last Time' – The Script.
- 'I Will Always Love You' – Whitney Houston.
- 'There You'll Be' – Faith Hill.
- 1. “ I Will Always Love You” by Whitney Houston (1992) ...
- 2. “ I Will Always Love You” by Dolly Parton (1974) ...
- 3. “ A Sunday Kind of Love” by Etta James (1960) ...
- 4. “ Love Song” by Lana Del Rey (2019) ...
- 5. “ Some People Never Know” by Wings (1971) ...
- 6. “ ...
- 7. “ ...
- 8. “
- I wish you were here.
- I think about you all the time.
- I see you everywhere around me.
- When will I see you again?
- I'm counting the days by minutes.
- I can't stop thinking about you.
- I can't wait to be with you again.
- I can feel your breath on my neck.
|21. "Love Story"—Taylor Swift||31. "How Do I Live"—Trisha Yearwood|
|26. "Angel of Mine"—Monica||36. "Be My Baby"—Ronettes|
|27. "Thank God I Found You"—Mariah Carey, Joe and 98 Degrees||37. "When I Look at You"—Miley Cyrus|
|28. "Crazy for You"—Madonna||38. "The Way I Am"—Ingrid Michaelson|
- Give Them Space. ...
- Apply the No Contact Rule (Yes, Even on Social Media) ...
- Become a Person You Can Be Proud Of. ...
- Make Some Positive Changes in Your Appearance. ...
- Make Some Positive Changes in Your Mentality. ...
- Allow Yourself to Grieve for a While. ...
- Write a Journal.
Devoting your social time to people and activities you find fulfilling and enjoyable can take your mind off missing your ex while reinforcing the fact that you can absolutely heal and move forward. Also, consider that doing the same things you did with your ex, only on your own, can magnify the feeling of loss.
Breaking up helps create distance, as well as some free time to mull things over. "It also allows both of you the chance to reflect on what went wrong and then decide if you want to make realistic changes to improve the relationship," Opperman says.
- Think about the reasons ending the relationship was for the best. ...
- Don't hold your feelings inside. ...
- Take up journaling. ...
- Stay busy. ...
- Do not give in to the urge to call or text. ...
- Go out with friends. ...
- Focus on self-improvement.
- "Thank U, Next" by Ariana Grande. ...
- "Love Yourself" by Justin Bieber feat. ...
- "Me, Myself, and I" by Beyoncé ...
- "Shout Out to My Ex" by Little Mix. ...
- "Lost Boy" by Troye Sivan. ...
- "Since U Been Gone" by Kelly Clarkson. ...
- "Without Me" by Halsey.
- You don't feel safe, physically or emotionally. ...
- You're always making excuses for them. ...
- You don't like who you are around them. ...
- They drain your energy. ...
- You've outgrown them. ...
- There are more bad times than good. ...
- Your loved ones don't approve of them. ...
- You can't see a future with them.
- Look at your life as a journey. ...
- Silence your inner critic. ...
- Reflect realistically. ...
- Let go of fantasy. ...
- Feel the feelings. ...
- Talk about it. ...
- Explore your attachment style. ...
- Believe in yourself.
- Accept the Reality of the Situation. ...
- Rely on Your Support System. ...
- Get Out of Your Comfort Zone. ...
- Don't Be Your Own Worst Enemy. ...
- Look Toward the Future. ...
- Take a Break from Social Media. ...
- Clear Out the Physical Reminders.
"I Will Always Love You" by Whitney Houston is our pick for top love song of all time.
- "I Will Always Love You" by Whitney Houston (1992)
- "All of Me" by John Legend (2013)
- "God Only Knows" by The Beach Boys (1966)
- "I'm On Fire" by Bruce Springsteen (1984)
- "Because You Loved Me" by Celine Dion (1996) ...
- "Make You Feel My Love" by Bob Dylan (1997)
“My Heart Will Go On (Love Theme from Titanic)” by Céline Dion. “A Moment Like This” by Kelly Clarkson. “Love Story” by Taylor Swift. “I Will Always Love You” by Whitney Houston (From the hit movie The Bodyguard)
- Let him know that he's on your mind.
- Invite him to do something with you in the near future.
- Share an inside joke.
- Reminisce about a good time that you had together.
- Ask him how his day is going.
"No matter where you go, you will always be in my heart." "Missing someone is your heart's way of reminding you that you love them." "My world is a million shattered pieces put together, glued by my tears, where each piece is nothing but a reflection of you." "Missing someone is a part of loving them.
- "I Only Have Eyes for You" by The Flamingos. ...
- "At Last" by Etta James. ...
- "My Heart Will Go On" by Celine Dion. ...
- "All of Me" by John Legend. ...
- "Endless Love" by Diana Ross and Lionel Richie. ...
- "Faithfully" by Journey. ...
- "Can't Help Falling in Love" by Elvis Presley. ...
- "(You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman" by Aretha Franklin.
Make him cry by emphasizing how deeply you're in love with him. Be honest about all the romantic feelings you have about him, and tell him in detail about how he makes you feel. You can show your love to someone in many ways, but just sometimes, you need to hear (or read) those words to feel reassured.
They ask you questions that are too personal
This is one of the clear signs your ex is testing you. They suddenly start texting or calling you to ask personal questions to make you feel uncomfortable. Deal with it by telling them how you feel. They may respond by explaining why they are doing it.
- Your Exes Rebound Is No Longer A Rebound.
- They Never Unblock You.
- It's Been Months And All Of Your Pictures Together Are Still Up.
- You Can Tell They Are Just Responding To Be Nice To You.
Have you had the sensation of being touched even though no one is close to you? This can be a startling sign that someone is thinking or talking about you, which manifests as energy vibrations. Depending on the intensity of how that person feels towards you, their energy is transmitted as non-physical touch.
Someone is thinking about you
When you can't get someone off your mind, it might mean that the other person is thinking of you. The chances are higher if you've met that person recently. It doesn't matter if you've talked to him/her or just seen each other on the street.
- Acknowledge the truth of the situation. ...
- Identify relationship needs — and deal breakers. ...
- Accept what the love meant to you. ...
- Look to the future. ...
- Prioritize other relationships. ...
- Spend time on yourself. ...
- Give yourself space. ...
- Understand it may take some time.
If you're wondering, "Will he come back?" — the answer is yes, they always do. Ex-boyfriends seem to have a knack for making a reappearance after breaking up with you — especially just when you're finally feeling like you're getting over the whole thing and are ready to move on with your life.
Love will come back when you change your expectations
Even if you happen to reconcile with the same person, things will have changed, and the relationship will be different. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Think about what you expected from your last relationship, as well as what your partner expected.
Even ifyou were the one who initiated the split, there are five stages ofgrief that you will go through. They are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance, according to Mental-Health-Matters. These are the natural ways for your heart to heal.
How long heartbreak lasts. After six weeks most people start to adjust to life without their ex, says Durvasula. “It could be a lot quicker, but typically it's not much longer,” she says. “I tell my clients all the time: Give everything six weeks before you think you are not coping well.”
After a breakup, it is normal to have feelings for an ex still. Most likely, you've shared many intimate moments and memories. It's completely normal to love an ex still, especially if it is true love. After a time, that love can fade, especially if you meet someone new and you're falling in love again.
If they're feeling emotional, or going through a tough time, they can remember moments where you helped them through it together and get nostalgic. You're just a warm memory for them that they want to feel again - even if it's over.
- 1 Break My Soul - Lizzo. ...
- 2 Dua Lipa - We're Good. ...
- 3 Shakira - Don't Wait Up. ...
- 4 Used To Know Me - Charli XCX. ...
- 8 Fleetwood Mac - Go Your Own Way. ...
- 9 Destiny's Child - Independent Women Part II. ...
- 11 Lauryn Hill - Ex-Factor. ...
- 12 No Doubt - Don't Speak.
- 'You Can Go Your Own Way' – Fleetwood Mac.
- 'Yes' – McAlmont & Butler. ...
- 'Love Will Tear Us Apart' – Joy Division. ...
- 'Dancing on My Own' – Robyn. ...
- 'Back to Black' – Amy Winehouse. ...
- 'I Will Survive' – Gloria Gaynor. ...
- 'Sorry' – Beyoncé ...
- 'Hey, That's No Way to Say Goodbye' – Leonard Cohen. ...
1. "Someone Like You" by Adele. Adele's beautiful voice coupled with relatable lyrics makes this song the ultimate “moving forward” song.
The true meaning of loving someone and letting them go starts with being selfless, not selfish. You may have a partner that wants to focus on finding themselves and cannot commit to a partnership right now. Ultimately, it may not be your fault.
- Be honest about why you are leaving but avoid long narratives. ...
- Do it face-to-face. ...
- Don't try to get your partner to understand or agree with your decision. ...
- Resist the urge to stay friends. ...
- Set boundaries for the discussion. ...
- Prepare yourself for what happens post-breakup.